It took awhile, but I've finally switched over to OSX - and from what I can tell by googling for "OSX Ruby mysql gem", have gone through what seems to be an initiation.
There are many, many, many posts on how to make it install - and most of them didn't work for me. I did get it to work though and actually quite easily once i figured out what to do, so I figured I'd post yet another blog on the subject detailing how it worked, for me.
sudo su ARCHFLAGS="-arch i386" gem install mysql -- --with-mysql-dir=/usr/local/mysql
This made it install, but requiring mysql caused it to explode.. to fix that:
install_name_tool -change /usr/local/mysql/lib/mysql/libmysqlclient.15.dylib /usr/local/mysql/lib/libmysqlclient.15.dylib /Library/Ruby/Gems/1.8/gems/mysql-2.7/lib/mysql.bundle
The install_name_tool changes where the mysql.bundle looks for the dylib file - by default it was looking in mysql/lib/mysql instead of mysql/lib. The gem install command that worked I found on wishingline.com and some info on the install_name_tool fix was found in this thread.
Hopefully this will be helpful for somebody else trying to install the ruby mysql gem on leopoard!
Update: Rein has posted a cleaner solution.
